yes I dated a beautiful woman that did not want to be eaten - I loved to do it - it was a negative to me. I guess that would be gross. One would squirt a foul tasting liquid (strong pee?) when she would climax that was a deterrent.
Eating her soaking wet pussy would be a joy, as would sucking those hard, tight nips on her great boobs.. lucky man, and she fucks outside too... my wife would NEVER do something like that.. She finally admitted she doesn't like her pussy eaten, thinks it's gross... I've never had any complaints, eating dozens of ladies to orgasm.. including my wife. I guess gross is all a matter of taste.. like trying to eat a girl with a yeast infection... too much for me, I tried, and gave up.